Energy of Elegance

What does it feel like when someone interacts joyfully with you? What energy do you bring to your interactions? 

I am pleased to be spending this week at the Ritz-Carlton in Half Moon Bay. Beyond beauty, it offers an energy of elegance. Their motto of “We are Ladies and Gentlemen serving Ladies and Gentlemen” rings true in what they think, say and do.   

While I do not know the individual thoughts of these Ladies and Gentlemen, their joyful service suggests the thinking falls along the lines of, “I am a person of dignity seeing and honoring your dignity.”  

This demonstration of joyful grace with guests sets a tone that permeates the entire space, as I witness guests responding in kind. 

In my conflict resolution training and coaching, I talk about the energy that people bring to the situation. Being aware of feelings helps transform thinking to create the energy we want to bring to the moment.  

I believe we may all enjoy a similar energy of elegance throughout our communities. What if each person simply commits to smiling and saying, “good morning,” “thank you” and “my pleasure” on daily basis?  

Of course, the vibrational energy only results when the feeling behind the words aligns with the words and actions. Feelings of genuine commitment to bringing one’s best self to any moment and true care for the person matter.  

What energy do you bring to your day? What if we all bring an energy of elegance? 

Sherry Ann Bruckner

Sherry Ann Bruckner

Most widely known as Lonzo's human, mediator, speaker, and author Sherry Ann Bruckner works with leaders and organizations to create peace, resolve conflict, and transform visions into results.

From her twenty-plus years' experience practicing civil and family law, and her own personal experiences with silence and violence, Sherry Ann understands how much inner peace impacts outer peace. A graduate of Hamline University's College of Liberal Arts and William Mitchell College of Law, she also studied conflict resolution at Rothberg International School in Jerusalem. Sherry serves as a neutral on matters ranging from bias and employment discrimination to marriage dissolution and caring for aging parents. A speaker and trainer on the global stage, Sherry gives you and your audience practical skills and the confidence to use embrace your personal power to create peace. Through helping thousands of people navigate their way through conflict, and finding her own way to inner peace, she shares the transformational power of clarity, compassion, curiosity, and cribbage.

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Sherry Ann Bruckner

Be gentle with you. Be gentle with all. Be the peace.